Anything to lower the Kratom withdrawal affects ?

I’m really trying to get my shit together ! I have a girlfriend my first daughter which she 8 months and I’m only 21 and I feel like my life is over ! I’m spending way too much money on this and it taking over my life ! Like the amount of money that can get me kicked out my apartment if I don’t stop soon ! I wanna be a better man for my family please someone help me ! ( My story way longer then this but if somebody wants to know I’ll go more in to details)

Ps: I take this brand called “opia” and it brings 4 lil pills ! And eat pill has 20mg and I take half at a time !